Thank you everyone for your kind words. In my virtual house, everything is clean and my fridge is stocked with delicious, mild food to eat. My kids all want their new friends to come back and play. It is a hard time, but your long distance support really helps. Even if it is only the virtual kind :)
In real life my husband had to go to work today. Of course, this had to go down during my husband's busiest time. I'm debating asking my mom to help me when the boys come off of the bus this afternoon. She is so busy right now, though, and I am not up to explaining everything about this pregnancy and my choice to get pregnant now that it is over.
I went in for my first OB appointment yesterday. I was sooo hoping that there wouldn't be anything to see. Unfortunately, the bean was still there, giving us all the finger. They scheduled me for a D & C on Friday morning. Joy joy joy. I can't believe there can still be something in there after the two days I've had!
I know it may be hard to believe, but I am over the moon about the new BFPs and heartbeats out there this week. After Christmas I'm going to start making baby hats and sending them out. My email address is Chickenpig2 at yaho.o dot com. Send me your mailing addresses for a hat at anytime.
I know this sucks and it's hard but I'm glad to hear that you are doing OK. So sorry you have to have a DandC. This shit just isn't fair!
ReplyDeleteI'll be there tomorrow morning with you virtually, holding your hand.
ReplyDeleteCall your mum. Think about how much you'd want your own kids to call you if they were ever in this situation. Parents want to be needed, even by their adult kids. At least, that's what I assume.
*sigh* I know. It's just that it is hard enough for me to deal with this this close to Christmas. If she had known I was pregnant that would be a different story, but we were waiting to tell people...naturally.
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure how close you are to your mom....but I would definitely be calling mine. Just having her nearby would make me feel a little better. It really stinks that you have to have a DnC on top of this all. I'll be thinking of you Friday (well, more than I already am).
ReplyDeleteOh hon I was so devastated for you I wish I could ly over now and help. I ope tomorrow is ok and you will be ok. I just ish this hadn't happened to you xxxxxx
ReplyDeleteSorry that you'll have to go through the D&C and slow close to Christmas to boot. I can well remember not being comfortable after mine. Maybe you should still tell your mom because afterall she is a mom and might just understand what you'll need in the way of comfort about now.
ReplyDeleteDearest dearest Chickenpig... I'm so so sorry to hear about what you've been through and so sorry that I didn't realise until just now. I've gotten so far behind in reading and can't believe that I didn't realise and therefore haven't' been there for you. You are such a special blogging friend already... and my heart breaks for you. Please know that I'm thinking of you and wish that I could give you a big hug. Love to you always xoxo
ReplyDeleteSo so sorry to hear this news. I'd just started following your blog and was really hoping that this would work out for you. Thinking of you as you face a difficult time in the run up to Christmas.
ReplyDeleteI agree with those who have said to call your mom, you need her now and I'm sure she doesn't even care why you've called for her help.
ReplyDeleteStill thinking about you.
So sorry you are going to have to do a D&C. And I would reach out for help from your mom or whomever...this trumps whatever else anyone has going on. Sorry your husband is so busy right now, too...that sucks.
ReplyDeleteHuge hugs and I will be thinking about you tomorrow and over the weekend. I'm leaving my computer at home over the holiday so will be absent here for a few days, but you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
XOXO
I an just catching up on all my blogs and I feel horrible I didn't read earlier. I am so so sorry you are going through this. I agree also, call your Mom. Let someone help and take care of you. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hugz
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry about this. I should've checked your blog earlier.I know there isn't anything I can say to make you feel better but I hope you know you can message me anytime.
ReplyDeleteI wish I could give you a hug.
I'm your newest follower and I'm so sorry about your loss. I'm also grateful that you are someone who understands mine.
ReplyDeletesending a lot of hugs your way to help you through the days ahead.
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Oh honey, I just got caught upand I'm so very sorry for your loss! Lots of hugs and kisses!
ReplyDeleteThanks, as always, for your comment on my blog. Glad to hear you're doing a little better this week. Been thinking about you...
ReplyDeleteHugs...
I am so sorry, Chickenpig. Just --- so sorry.
ReplyDeleteOh my, I don't know why I didn't see this earlier. I am so, so sorry to hear. Thinking good thoughts for you and sending a hug.
ReplyDeleteI didn't see this 'til now. D&C go ok (as best it can?)? Thinking of you daily.
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