Valentine's shmalentines *updated*

I am busy busy busy. I've been tagged, but I haven't had time to sit down and write a response. It's Valentine's day today, but I haven't bought a so much as a card for my hubby, although I snuck cards into the boys' lunch boxes this morning. All weekend the kids were sick, and yesterday I was sick, so I spent all day in bed sleeping. I'm not joking, I didn't wake up until 12:30. I'm still not feeling 100%. I remembered that the boys had to have valentines for all the kids in their classes as of 2 pm yesterday, and since I haven't been farther than 15 feet or so from a bathroom in two days, I had to send my husband out on an emergency valentine run. I was up until 11:30 last night addressing them...with two mad dashes to the toilet.

My clinic called me sometime yesterday afternoon. I was in bed at the time, and my husband came in with the phone and tossed it at me while literally snarling that it was my doctor before storming out of the room. When I went to answer it the line was dead, so I got out of bed and went after him. Once again my husband was angry, even though he promised that it was ok to move forward and that he wasn't going to be a prick about it. Once again I'm left with not knowing if I'm supposed to move forward or if I'm just supposed to dangle in the breeze with my pants down. I am so fed up, I can't even tell you. And tomorrow is cycle day 21 for me, so it is possible that the clinic was calling me to tell me to get blood drawn tomorrow so I can start Lupron, which would mean scrabbling to buy it today so it can be shipped. Of course I called them back yesterday, but it was already late in the afternoon so all I could do was leave a message. I'm hoping they get back to me early today so I know what's up. But before they do I have to call hubby at work and confirm that it is indeed ok for me to move forward. GAH! He drives me crazy. I don't need flowers or roses, I just need some consistency from this dude.

Anyway, I apologize if I haven't been keeping up with everyone's posts and whatnot. I'll be back on top of things.....sometime.

*UPDATE*  I called my tricky hubby to see if I had the go ahead or not. I emphasized the fact that I didn't want to do this without him on board 100%, and that this was the last time I wanted to hear any objections, and he told me to "go ahead and call the clinic". So I did. They called me back promptly, I'm pleased to say. My doctor knows that Pablo is due back from Boca..(or wherever he is off spoiling someone's day)...next week, and when he arrives I am to call them to schedule a saline ultrasound strait away to be sure that all the *products of conception* have been properly removed.  So...still on target for an April cycle most likely. YEAH!